There are few things that haunt fathers who want to be an integral part of their children's lives more than holding your child and hearing, "Go with Mommy," or when you are doing something for them and hearing, "Mommy do it!". These words may be different for each father, but the idea is the same; "Mommy is better than you, Daddy" and nothing can be done to change that. For me, these words bounce around my brain every time my children say them like a mental pinball game smashing into the bumpers of doubt and low self esteem leaving me obviously tilted. Game over. I lose.